Among the hostages have been held in sweltering tunnels deep beneath Gaza, whereas others have been squeezed into tight quarters with strangers or confined in isolation. There have been kids compelled to look in hostage movies, and others compelled to observe grotesque footage of Hamas’s Oct. 7 terrorist assault. They bore bodily and psychological wounds.
As some hostages captured that day within the Hamas-led assault on southern Israel have been launched, they’ve relayed these and different tales of their captivity to members of the family. Whereas their particular person experiences differ in some particulars, their accounts share options that corroborate each other and recommend that Hamas and its allies deliberate to take hostages.
The New York Occasions interviewed the members of the family of 10 freed hostages, who spoke on behalf of their relations to relay delicate info.
The relations who spoke to The Occasions described how the freed hostages, a lot of them kids, have been disadvantaged of ample meals whereas in Gaza. Many mentioned they’d obtained only a single piece of bread per day for weeks. Others have been fed small parts of rice, or items of cheese. The Purple Cross mentioned it was denied entry to the hostages.
Most of the hostages who’ve returned to Israel previously week — a part of a cease-fire deal between Israel and the armed group Hamas to commerce hostages for Palestinian prisoners and detainees — have come residence malnourished, infested with lice, in poor health, injured and deeply traumatized.
An aunt of Avigail Idan, a twin American Israeli citizen who was taken hostage after her mother and father have been brutally killed, and who turned 4 a number of days earlier than being launched, mentioned her niece shared one piece of pita bread per day with 4 different captives and didn’t have a bathe or bathtub throughout her 50 days in captivity.
In accordance with the aunt, Tal Idan, the 5 hostages have been saved in aboveground flats, altering areas not less than as soon as. They got a bit of pita with za’atar, a Center Japanese spice combine, every day to share.
Whereas Avigail was in captivity, her hair was shorn as a result of she had developed a major case of lice, Ms. Idan mentioned. “She was covered in it. It took quite an effort to help her get rid of some of it the first night.”
The shock of the terrorist assault on Oct. 7 and the kidnapping of so many individuals directly has been described as a nationwide trauma for Israel, however it is usually trauma borne by people.
Within the assault, greater than 1,200 individuals have been killed and 240 have been taken hostage, in accordance with Israeli authorities. Since then, Israel has bombarded Gaza, with greater than 13,000 individuals killed within the enclave for the reason that conflict started, the Gazan well being ministry estimates.
For the hostages, it has been a sequence of horrors — first the assault, then the kidnapping after which captivity itself.
Nurit Cooper, 79, was held within the warren of tunnels beneath Gaza with 4 older Israelis within the early days of the conflict. They have been saved in a small room with little mild or air flow, in accordance with Rotem Cooper, her son.
Ms. Cooper’s shoulder was damaged “as part of the brutality of the kidnapping,” Mr. Cooper mentioned. The group of hostages, all of their 70s and 80s, he added, struggled to stroll at nighttime, sandy tunnels.
Ms. Cooper and one other hostage, Yocheved Lifshitz, 85, have been launched final month, however their husbands are nonetheless captive in Gaza. Ms. Cooper’s husband, Amiram Cooper, 84, is the amongst oldest of the remaining hostages.The captors took his glasses and have disadvantaged him of wanted treatment, his son mentioned.
Most of the members of the family interviewed, notably the relations of youngsters whose mother and father or siblings stay in captivity, have been reluctant to share essentially the most incriminating particulars of their captivity lest the militants retaliate in opposition to the hostages nonetheless of their custody.
Others cautioned that they have been reluctant to pry an excessive amount of too quickly, or to share publicly essentially the most disturbing particulars in an effort to protect their relations’ privateness and to maintain them from being retraumatized.
An aunt of Eitan Yahalomi, a 12-year-old kidnapped from the Nir Oz kibbutz and returned to his household on Monday, nonetheless, informed a French tv community that the boy had “lived through horrors” in Gaza.
The aunt, Devorah Cohen, mentioned that when Eitan had arrived in Gaza he was set upon by a mob.
“When he arrived in Gaza, civilians hit him,” she informed BFM TV, including that the boy and different kidnapped kids have been compelled to observe movies of the atrocities dedicated on Oct. 7. When he and others cried, she mentioned, their captors threatened to shoot them.
Efrat Avsker, one other of Eitan’s aunts, informed The Occasions that the boy had “a long, long recovery, a long way to go.”
“But he is in good hands,” she added.
Ohad Yahalomi, Eitan’s father, was shot within the leg and arm making an attempt to guard his household. He was kidnapped individually. Ms. Avsker mentioned the household was very relieved to have Eitan residence, however is deeply anxious about Mr. Yahalomi’s security.
“We all must do everything we can, everything we can to get him and the others out,” she mentioned.
By Thursday, 102 hostages had been launched from Gaza, most of them ladies and kids, ranging in age from 4 to 85. As a part of the trade, 210 Palestinians had been launched from Israeli prisons, all of them ladies and youngsters.
On Wednesday, Hamas mentioned the youngest of the hostages captured on Oct. 7, 10-month-old Kfir Bibas, had died with the opposite members of his household whereas in captivity. The Israeli navy mentioned it was assessing the accuracy of the Hamas assertion, whereas a senior chief mentioned the claims may very well be “psychological warfare.”
Survivors of kidnapping say the highway forward could also be lengthy for these launched. However within the brief time period, some could really feel uncomplicated reduction. “The initial emotions after being rescued are joy and relief,” mentioned Elizabeth Good, a toddler security activist who was kidnapped from her Salt Lake Metropolis bed room in 2002 when she was 14 and held captive for 9 months, throughout which she was raped. “It’s a miracle, and it’s an answer to prayer.”
For Noam and Alma Or, teenage siblings launched this week, the enjoyment of being freed was tempered by the information of a dad or mum’s loss of life.
Quickly after embracing the newly freed youngsters, members of the family needed to inform them that their mom had been killed and that their father was nonetheless lacking.
“I know it was very difficult,” their uncle Ahal Besorai mentioned in an interview, including that the kids requested that he not reveal too many particulars about their situations in Gaza, past that it was “very unpleasant.”
The siblings, he mentioned, survived their captivity largely as a result of they’d one another.
“They said they actually supported each other, so if one of them had a bad day or a down day, the other would support him or her,” he mentioned. “It created some kind of a bond.”
Households that have been in a position to stay collectively, just like the Or siblings, mentioned they discovered solace in being collectively.
Three generations of the Munder household — Ruth, 78, Keren, 54, and her son Ohad, 9, — have been held collectively in a room in Gaza with about 10 different hostages. The group slept on chairs and wanted permission from their captors to make use of a bathroom, which may typically take greater than an hour to get, mentioned Eyal Mor, a relative of the Munders.
It was in that room, Mr. Mor mentioned, that the household realized that Ruth’s son, Keren’s brother, had died. They have been listening to a report on Israeli radio, which they may sometimes hear.
Because the household’s launch, Ohad has been reluctant to open up about his abduction on Oct. 7, Mr. Mor mentioned.
“You know, you can never know what will be the long-term impact of this trauma,” Mr. Mor mentioned.
In these early days, Israelis try to bolster the spirits of the returning hostages nonetheless doable.
Ohad’s docs made an exception to the visitation guidelines and allowed him to ask his eight greatest buddies to see him on the Tel Aviv hospital the place he was monitored.
Eitan, an avid soccer fan and participant, obtained to satisfy gamers from Hapoel Be’er Sheva, his favourite crew.
He was thrilled by the assembly, mentioned his aunt, Ms. Avsker. However largely, he’s relishing the easy pleasures.
“Eitan is happy to be home,” she mentioned. “Happy to be hugged and loved by his mother and the whole family — and pretty much by the whole country.”
Reporting was contributed by Nadav Gavrielov, Roni Rabin, Talya Minsberg and Adam Sella.
